Up until I accepted God’s love I really had no criteria of who qualifies to have access to my heart. I was foolish.
I now realise how much pain I exposed myself to for letting people who just meant no good into my heart. I forgot to guard my heart.
What I have learned though is that once your source of love is God, you just never run out no matter how much people take from you. As I grew older I started avoiding people who were interested in taking and not reciprocating. It’s exhausting.
So this is what I did:
1. I started to create boundaries.
2. I started to find peace in my own company.
3. I started to value myself and my God-given gifts
4. I started to believe that God loves me and that nothing can separate me from His love
What criteria have you set for people to have access to your heart?